The Grand Assumption...

...is that the self that we have constructed is the fundamental reality of life. Therefore, people use up their lives adding layer upon layer to this false self. But in the end this hollowness is simply contingent and worthless.

It has been said that people are not very good at recognizing this illusion, when in fact people are exceptionally adept at defending and building this false persona. Doing so demonstrates just how aware people actually are of the false self's exact nature, place, and fantasy-role in their lives, as well as their resistance to simply be their true God-given self. And while it may sound simple to leave the former for the later, in reality it is immensely difficult because while I can come to certain conclusions and understandings and resolutions about both God and my own nature, there is no human way to come to reveal or possess God.

The only one who can teach me to find God is God.

- Thomas Merton (alt.)